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Unwanted Xmas gifts: what to say

By Mark Cox
December 16, 2010 at 12:18 pm

It’s Christmas: season of socks and gift sets and those ceramic bowls with a candle underneath for melting chocolate that no-one has ever taken out the box. Ever.

Everyone has a present horror story: the excruciating framed picture that someone will expect to see on your living room wall when they next visit; the ‘scented’ bubble bath that would stun a cow at ten paces; the brooch that looks like a baby’s just vomited on your top.

Still, there’s no accounting for taste, and rest assured someone out there would be delighted – nay, even emotional – to find the dolphin figurine that Aunt Agnes bought for you on sale at a bargain price. So please do drop off your unwanted stuff at a local Red Cross shop, then pat yourself on the back for achieving the rare double feat of doing something honourable while getting rid of unwanted tat.

In return, I’ll give you a quick tutorial in understanding the nuances of gift etiquette – the difference between what people say about your presents and what they mean – which should help you avoid future Xmas clangers. Here’s five classic examples to bear in mind:

1. Ah, you can never have too many of these…
I have too many of these.

2. Lovely. These will come in…
I have absolutely no use for these items.

3. Ah, just what I wanted…
What is this, exactly?

4. Aw. Look at this, Trevor…
Trevor. Please. Trevor. You say something about this tat. I’m literally lost for words here.

5. That’s great! Honestly, I really do like that…
I hated everything else that you bought me.

So remember: leave the reindeer slippers and Old Spice aftershave on the shelf and, if in doubt, just buy them a gift voucher. Merry Christmas!


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